Am I a Lesbian? Take This Self-Reflection Quiz

Feb 10, 2026 Crimson Secret

Am I Lesbian? Sexual Orientation Quiz

Explore your sexual orientation through our scientifically-informed questionnaire. This quiz is designed to help you reflect on your feelings and attractions, with results based on psychological research.

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Question 1

When you imagine a romantic relationship, what gender do you typically picture your partner as?

Almost always women/female-identified people

Mostly women, but occasionally men

Equally women and men

Mostly men, but occasionally women

Almost always men/male-identified people

Question 2

How do you feel when you see an attractive woman?

Strong physical and emotional attraction

Moderate attraction, both physical and emotional

Aesthetic appreciation without sexual attraction

Little to no reaction

Discomfort or avoidance

Question 3

Which statement best describes your sexual fantasies?

They almost exclusively involve women

They mostly involve women, but sometimes men

They involve both women and men equally

They mostly involve men, but sometimes women

They almost exclusively involve men

Question 4

How do you feel about the idea of a long-term romantic partnership with a woman?

Extremely appealing and desirable

Appealing, but with some reservations

Neutral - could be satisfying or not depending on the person

Mostly unappealing, but possible in the right circumstances

Completely unappealing to me

Question 5

Have you ever had romantic feelings for a female friend?

Yes, multiple times

Yes, once or twice

I'm not sure - maybe platonic feelings I misinterpreted

No, but I can appreciate attractive women

No, never

Question 6

How do you identify your sexual orientation currently?

Lesbian/gay/homosexual

Bisexual/pansexual

Queer or questioning

Heterosexual/straight

Prefer not to say/unsure

Question 7

In your past relationships or attractions, what pattern do you see?

Consistently attracted to women only

Mostly attracted to women with few exceptions

Attracted to people regardless of gender

Mostly attracted to men with few exceptions

Consistently attracted to men only

Question 8

When you think about your future, what feels most authentic to you?

A life partnered with a woman

A life that could include partnership with either gender

I'm still exploring what feels right

A life partnered with a man

I haven't given this much thought

Question 9

How do you feel about the label "lesbian" for yourself?

It feels accurate and comfortable

It feels somewhat accurate but not perfect

I'm not sure - still exploring if it fits

It doesn't feel right for me

I actively dislike this label for myself

Question 10

How would you describe your emotional connections with women compared to men?

Deeper and more fulfilling with women

Generally deeper with women, but can be deep with men too

Equally deep regardless of gender

Generally deeper with men, but can be deep with women too

Deeper and more fulfilling with men

Your Sexual Orientation Quiz Results

Your score: 0/40

What Your Score Means

Understanding Lesbian Identity

Common Lesbian Subcategories

Next Steps & Self-Exploration

Research References

This quiz is informed by psychological research on sexual orientation, including:

Kinsey Scale research on sexual orientation continuum (Kinsey et al., 1948)
Contemporary models of sexual orientation from the American Psychological Association
Research on sexual fluidity by Dr. Lisa Diamond (University of Utah)
Studies on female sexual orientation from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Disclaimer: This quiz is for self-exploration and informational purposes only. It is not a diagnostic tool. Sexual orientation is complex and exists on a spectrum. Your results may not capture the full complexity of your identity. If you have questions about your sexual orientation, consider speaking with a LGBTQ+-affirming therapist or counselor.

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